A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE

Hmmm, my perscpective..n your perscpective

BY. NANI CAHYANI

                 

  There are many thoughts to be thought, something natural as a human being always thinks about life, future and all possible things probably they want to achieve in life. In a life time the possibility meet some people who are kind or terrible surely will happen because nobody can predict what sorts of things might happen in his/her life. Sometimes feel depressed, stressed and so mad with all the differences views but again a part of life is learning to be and learning to listen. Nice and bitter always say hello to everyone just like wait its turn.

                 

         Remember one of the stories which have been written by Charles Dickens in his well known novel “Oliver Twist”. He is an orphan who grows up in a bad environment. He is taught to be a pickpocket and being a thief but the genuine thing inside of him is so dominant within him. He comes from a rich family and his parents are so kind and have a good value which inherits to Oliver Twist.

                

         The story is only an example of imaginary thing. Then, connect it with a real life as an example for everyone to take the morality messages in it. In a modern life, everyone busy with his/her business and ignore others as long as his/her aims already achieved, there is a statement that if a place turned into a city usually people become so individualistic do not care with others, life is just measure by the power, a great look/performance, money and so on.

               

         The consequences of technology changes and shapes many different personalities. Yup.., when you were a child you can play kasede-sede (a traditional game which use a stone and the stone has to pass a boundary, the game is played by two or three people) in a game we gather with others and have physical contact like shake hand if somebody wins. The game make us become so close with one to another but right now the game take people life as technology does not have a limitation, then it makes people so individual. Being busy with the machine and enjoy various games to be offered through cyber things. They can shape people become selfish but is not always right as long we uphold the good values from family and religion that works in us.

                 

         A perspective is a thing, to make us to think of ideas, right or wrong. Let me quote what Chomsky say in his book which title Ideas and Ideals, his words are: “a mirror of mind”. If we view the statement produces different perspectives of ours. Chomsky who said about a mirror of mind definitely has his own reason why he puts label on something as a mirror of mind. Then others absolutely try to judge or argue his ideas. It is fine to argue but the way of arguing must be very academic and logic, the term we can called is scientific arguing.

                   

         It just like my experience today when I had a small chit chat with my friend through via messages then I used my own term to compare one thing to another and the responded that I got from my friend, she thought that I was so bad as I hate the things that I mention with lots of weaknesses. Maybe my friend said so as she   uses her opinion to view my thought but things that I really disagree with her is the ideas of words selection she used to say something must be chosen well. Yup.. some people can be angry but still with a little bit of love, as my friend from Australia always said to me and others. You can mad to someone but still with a little bit love, you can feel disappointed but still a little bit love, because disappointments are not meant to destroy you. They are meant to strengthen you.

                 

          It is really so nice to have different perspective in life as it can shape as to be so tactful, so strong and so affectionate. Some people are annoying but then they teach us a lesson, some people are terrible but there is a heaven inside of them. Something which looks nice is not always look nice, but something looks bad maybe that something good, words from a friend. Again is just a perspective whatever the words and who said them are not important but the important is how we view positively all the differences nicely and humble to listen and learn.

Makassar, 3rd of March 2013

This story come from others’ thought, my thought and become a thought… hmmm just listen to everyone then they will listen to you back. Love everyone surrounds you then they will love you back.